How Important Is Conversation?

June 12, 2007

My mind does not work in conventional ways. Sure it sometimes works dumbly and sometimes not at all, but never in a straight line. Must have something to do with all the books I've read—I mean, all those voices of authors speaking in your head, explaining things from their own phenomenal worlds, you're bound to get a little bit crazy. As I have become.

 

Mind you, I'm not saying I'm anything grand or special. I'm just different, and in the context of the world today, being different is no big deal. Being NOT different is. Therefore, it gladdens my heart so when I find people who are not very different from me, intellectually. Either I become best friends with them forever or I fall in love with them. That tells you tons about my friends and my Special Bother.

 

The point of this dithering post? Conversation is important to me. Talking is important to me. I almost always fall in love with a person's mind first before anything else and if it stops manifesting itself through conversation, things get a little sad. I hope people understand that and not throw a bitch fit. I just don't want things to become monotonous and libido controlled. 


Posted by lizette at 12:48 pm | permalink

Previous Comments

INtelligent people are different. Or it’s just that tye others are just the same. ^-^

And I definitely agree to this “I just don’t want things to become monotonous and libido controlled”..

^-^

Posted by Cai at June 12, 2007, 2:56 pm

A small question…What defines a good conversation?!

Well, yeah…people will talk to you but most of the time, according to my experience, they talk more about themselves and actually just relate them to ypu, the other person…which is tiring. This very same reason gives monotone to dialogues…

0_o

Posted by dextrobant at June 12, 2007, 4:44 pm

cai: indeed. ;)

dex: what’s a good conversation? verbal communication that makes you feel all nice inside.

Posted by lizette at June 12, 2007, 10:09 pm

I just don’t want things to become monotonous and libido controlled. - sucks when this happens (i hate my life! ahehe)

Posted by alohapenny at June 12, 2007, 11:13 pm

alohapenny: don’t hate your life. do something about it, rather. ;)

Posted by lizette at June 13, 2007, 4:41 am

interesting kind of pheromone receptors you have there. lol.

but come to think of it. it sucks when the relationship degenerates into a mix of libido and convenience. when that time comes, you’re nothing more than fuck buddies. conversation is an important factor in any relationship.

of course, that statement was said sans any consideration to real-world problems. there are times when conversation gives way to other priorities. and here is where trust and security comes in.

Posted by arc at June 13, 2007, 12:49 pm

I’ve nothing to say at this point - all I know is, I’ve finally found time to post a comment here.

And I badly need a conversation. Only catch is, there just isn’t anybody. There used to be some, though. Gone, gone.

Welcome me back here, Liz.

Posted by Niko at June 13, 2007, 3:26 pm

uhhhh… uhhmmmmnnn… errr—- uhhhh…

i’m trying to think of a witty comment to make you think im a good conversationalist but i guess i blew it.

DOWWW!!!!

Posted by HOMER SIMPSONS at June 14, 2007, 5:57 pm